I agree. Socializing at a CC with the local gentry is not my idea of good time. I always felt a bit uneasy/creeped out by that crowd.
I caddied at Oakland Hills CC when I was 14, and had mixed memories of the people I lugged bags for. The doctors and lawyers were usually nice.. doctors moreso. I was too young to understand what everyone else did, but the others were a crap shoot. Anyone with more of a country boy/southern accent was usually a dick. White Professional athletes were cocky. African american pros were a little nicer.
Bill Bonds was a member. I remember being surprised how tanned, skinny and sickly he looked in person. He was a heavy smoker though, and boozed all the time. Looked like he lived a hard life. I would not want to fuck with him
I imagine the harsher DUI penalties played a role too in the decline of country clubbing fun... you can't booze like they used to in the 60's and 70's, run your oversized Caddy or Lincoln into a ditch and just have the cops drive you home. Gotta spend a night in jail, hire a lawyer, pay a four/five figure fine (depending on how many priors you have) and all that.